Introduction and my 1st vent

[Angryazngirl]

I just joined after searching for a place to vent all the anger cooped up inside.

First off let me say that i am (at most times) happily married and with 3 kids. My husband is a good provider and father. But when it comes to being sensitive, he sucks at it.

Last night he pissed me off again with another one of his inconsiderate comments. Seriously, think before you say shit. Does guys only think with their other head?

So i know he's a boob man (judging from his taste in porn). But i don't need to hear his comments about how much he misses big boobs or how he dated many big chested girls in his days. And DO NOT fucking ask me (even in a joking way) why i don't have double Ds. SHIT THAT! How's about i ask why can't you have a big fat 10" dick. Like that!!! But i'm not that inconsiderate. I'm not gonna ask questions that i know would hurt his feelings.

So why the fuck does guys not think before asking shit questions and making shit comments. I'm very open when it comes to talk about sex. I know he watches porn and wack himself off once in awhile. Hell, i don't give a shit because i do the same thing. But when you starts commenting and talking about your past and exes then don't blame me for ignoring your ass and with holding any type of sex for the next few days.

So yeah, i'm pissed. You he call me emotional once in a while but what the fuck am i supposed to be when you're being an inconsiderate prick.

So a little advice to all you guys out there. Think before you talk to your girl friends or wives. Especially if you're gonna mention shit about your past dating life. If you miss it so much then leave. Go find that girl with the big tits or the huge ass. And we'll go find ourself a guy with a bigger dick and a better fuck.

So anyway, that's last night but today i am still pissing mad.

He's the kinda guy who had tons of GFs in the past and i don't even want to know how many he's fucked. Me on the other hand only had 1 other BF before him. Yeah, i'm sad. I regret not going out and sleeping around more. I was too shy and had alot of family problems. Tended to keep to myself. So now all i have are regrets. And no i can't imagine leaving him because i do so love him. I love our family. I just wish he'd stop making comments and bringing up shit about the past. I DON'T need to know what and who's you've fucked back then. I DON'T need to know what vacations you took your exes to. Don't fucking compare me to them because i am not them. Just because you already did a certain thing with an ex doesn't mean that you can forget about doing it with me. DON'T say shit like 'i wish i would have went out more' Cause you know what i wish for alot of shit too. Just keep those thoughts to yourself like what i am doing with my thoughts.

I would think if you've dated around so much you'd know how to treat a girl better. Maybe he did but apparently i'm the one who missed out. And get this, my ex was a virgin who never had a GF so he didn't exactly know how to treat a girl either. But atleast we were very close and very open with each other when it comes to certain things. He was like a good friend that i can talk to. Can't say the same about my husband. It's like, he didn't want to hear about my feelings. So i have learned to keep all this shit bottled up inside me. What else can i do. So why didn't i marry my ex you ask. Well, he was a few years younger, not much of a job and didn't do anything with what potential he has and after being with him for a few years, i felt that the relationship is not going to go anywhere. I wasn't getting any younger and wanted to settle down and have kids. But now i wish i would have dated around a bit more before jumping into another long term relationship with another guy. My 2nd ever BF. Now my husband. I really haven't had much experience in life and love.

So whatever, i'm still pissed but i have to go now because he's gonna be home soon. But i'm sure i'll be back posting soon.

[Angryazngirl]

What is so funny?

Just because someone has had alot of partners in his or her days does not make them bad.

I accept him because he does have his good qualities also. I just also have to learn to accept that most all guys are dogs.

[4.cerealz]

hopefully i'm not the first person to break this to you, but the majority of men out there are dickless wonders who believe that their only self-worth arises from 1) how often they get their rocks off and 2) what other people will think of them because of the woman they have attached to their arm. i have literally heard men say that they wish their gf's had bigger tits so that it would make other men (and women) jealous. i'm hoping your husband isn't part of this group.

i've done the whole date-someone-who-can't-stop-talking-about-all-of-the-gratuitous-sex-they've-had before, and i've found it to be a center of major dissension. somehow they try to make you feel like YOU are the weird one because you didn't take every single offer that came your way. i've never thought it was "mean" or "nasty" to tell a guy to stop talking about all the lays he's had - if they were so great, why isn't he still with them? usually stops them in their tracks. because, that's right - being warm and wet ISN'T everything.

[Angryazngirl]

Angryazngirl: Your husband is only talking about his exes because you are reacting to what he says. If you act like you dont give a shit, he'll probably get bored and stop.

Yeah well, i've recently decided that i'm done talking to him. Love him but doesn't mean i have to talk to him since every time i try to express by feelings, he just gets annoyed. Also i don't want to risk anymore insensitive remarks coming out of his mouth. I'm just gonna be a mom to my kids and wait till life passes. I'm taking comfort in the fast that i will eventually die. Thank god we are not immortals.

[True Blue]

very sad when the fog of love clears and you start to see the warts and all. i know its a blokey thing to talk about past relationships...so here i go....i often remember waking up in some woman's bed and thinking she is not how I remembered her last night, then we look at each other, and are both thinking, maybe maybe not. The cold light of day, the dishevelled hair, the furry tongue, and the chiffon over the bed side lamp, actually needs dusting......

[4.cerealz]

very sad when the fog of love clears and you start to see the warts and all. i know its a blokey thing to talk about past relationships...so here i go....i often remember waking up in some woman's bed and thinking she is not how I remembered her last night, then we look at each other, and are both thinking, maybe maybe not. The cold light of day, the dishevelled hair, the furry tongue, and the chiffon over the bed side lamp, actually needs dusting......

it's comical when guys say "yeah... that tramp looked like a complete fucking DOG the next morning...."

i guess makeup and corsets CAN do a lot.