You'll Never Ever Get Over Her.

[Mattco92]

No Matter how hard i fucking try. no matter what i fucking do I will never ever be good enough to be her boyfriend.

i feel like most of the time shes using me to buy her smokes. and to vent her anger and frustration out. she doesn't open her eyes and see who she's really hurting. Why CANT I BE ANGRY?! why is she never there for me?!

i give her everything! and still she decides to go for the bad ass guys who cheat on her. then she comes crying back to me when she finds out.

ITS JUST A GREAT BIG FUCKING CYCLE. I never ever got a chance. i loved her for a whole fucking 8 months. then i went for the plunge and asked her out.
She said yes and a week later broke up with me for the bad ass scouts leader whose got huge ass fucking muscles.. i hate my fucking life. why cant i be her boyfriend?!

whats wrong with me?!! it took me a whole fucking 5 months to get over you and now you need someone to catch you?? its like your shoving my shattered heart back into my chest and expecting it to beat again..

i need you. more than a friend.

[AngryGoat]

Sounds like your too much of a nice guy (or trying to be), women like bastards.

[MAC1988]

Girls are confusing creatures. Seeing as I am one i should now.
I think your problem is you giving to much of yourself. If she doesn't like you no matter how nice you are, no matter what you buy her, no matter how much you listen to her bitch. her feelings will most likely never change. I hate to tell you to give up but i think its time for you to start thinking about yourself and see that this girl is just poison to you.

Unrequited love hurts. Nows the time for you to stand up for yourself. Take a stand and find a girl who loves you for you.

[True Blue]

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whats wrong with me?!! it took me a whole fucking 5 months to get over you and now you need someone to catch you?? its like your shoving my shattered heart back into my chest and expecting it to beat again..

i need you. more than a friend.[/QUOTE]

She can't buy cigarettes because she's a minor. What are you doing obsessing over a minor? You are sounding very creepy.

[lorricall]

Quit wasting your time on this piece of work. Let her continue on with all the losers she seems to desire. Stop being a doormat. While you're being a doormat for her, you're missing out on other chances for a good, successful relationship with a decent person. This chick is your hot stove. You've already gotten burned, don't put your hand back on the burner again.

[AngryGoat]

This chick is your hot stove. You've already gotten burned, don't put your hand back on the burner again.

Nice analogy.

[angryCuss]

fuck that bitch...tell that bitch to suck your dick next time you see her and that your cocks bigger and can gag her!

may not work but youll get her wondering and may get laid out of it!

[shorteedf]

she is obviously not friend to you if she's doing this to you i know it will be hard but my recommendation is to walk away maybe when she grows up and realizes what really is important in a relationship she'll figure out what she missed out on and could have had with you when you're already happily in a committed relationship with gorgeous girl who's actually good to you and treats you as well as you deserve. I know it's hard to see the light but i've been messed with too (my story's posted on blowuphisspot.webs.com it's the one titled four years is a long time if you're interested) trust me things have a way of turning aroung

[True Blue]

How to spot spam. Or fishing for Jesus types or the dreaded rock spiders.
First look for the mandatory referal to a website. Also the splattering of confirming comments like "trust me", or the classic " I know what you are going through" and a few biblical freudian slips like "seen the light" or " i was saved" or "treat others as you would have them treat you".

The more difficult ones to figure out are the 'rock spiders' and the 'groomers'. They comb the 'so called anger' websites looking for vulnerable victims. They can only type with one hand as the other is always choking the chicken. They never say anything to upset you, and they send more private messages than public postings. They often have child like avatars, and use desperately friendly overtures. But their biggest giveaway is that they pretend to be hurt or insulted. That's a big part of the grooming process. They want you to feel the power you have over them, and to get used to it, before they withdraw it.

The best thing to do if your not sure is expose any private messages on the forum for analysis.
I reckon shorteed is fishing for jesus, with tiny hint of potential rock spider

[4.cerealz]

whats wrong with me?!!

now is the age of enlightenment, buddy.

what's wrong with you? not a hell of a lot, in the grand scheme of things. don't get too cocky - nobody's perfect. i'm not here to nail you, but having been in the same situation with the roles reversed (nice female can't seem to find anything but dickless wonders, users, and douchebags/dirtbags), there's some shit you need to take responsibility for.

first of all, your biggest problem is that you believe that love is obligatory. "FUUUUUUUUUUUU i did all these things, i bought her all these things, i put up with the shitty nights of her pissing and moaning about never being appreciated blah blah blah blah blah!" sound familiar? sure it does. but the bottom line in whatever you did or didn't do for her is that SHE IS NOT OBLIGATED TO LOVE YOU. she could be a nice girl who just doesn't feel the spark. she could be a complete fucking moron. or she could be like 99% of females out there and be a total using cunt who is emotionally raping you for fulfillment that she will never get out of her doting meathead.

YOU CANNOT MAKE PEOPLE FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU, and this is why you can't be a dumbass about your feelings and hand them out like free condoms to college kids. people will fall in or out of love with you of their own accord, and the majority of the time you or anything you do will have little to no influence over this fact.

secondly, i have to make a serious inquiry:

WHY THE FUCK DO YOU WANT SOME CUNT TO LOVE YOU WHO OBVIOUSLY DISRESPECTS YOU AND DOESN'T GIVE A SHIT ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS, YOUR POSITION, OR WHAT YOU HAVE TO OFFER?

and THAT is a bigger issue than the first. no one ever goes out into the world saying, "i want the biggest dickbag ever to fall in love with me!" and yet that's exactly what they do. why? stop thinking with your penis. stop thinking about how jealous the guys in the office will be when they see what you've managed to bag. stop thinking about how good looking your children will be because he's got a lip ring and a prison tattoo. JUST FUCKING STOP.

you want to fall in love with a nice girl who will love you for who you are and not what you can do for her, then you need to start standing up for yourself and stop getting tripped up over sluts who want to be molly-coddled by a nice guy but who want to go home with a freak in the sheets.

if you decide to take the road less traveled, i can't promise that you're not going to be alone. but you know what i CAN promise? i CAN promise that you're going to feel a lot better about your life once you STOP letting slags take you for an emotional rollercoaster ride because you gave in to their games.

and then maybe the right girl will have a chance of coming along, because you won't be so caught up in some slut's drama-llama that you might actually notice her.