You'll Never Ever Get Over Her.

**4.cerealz** · 08-03-2010, 11:12 PM

also, FUCK SPAMMERS you know who you are, assholes.

**shorteedf** · 08-04-2010, 01:22 AM

Originally Posted by True Blue

The best thing to do if your not sure is expose any private messages on the forum for analysis.
I reckon shorteed is fishing for jesus

I have no private messages on this forum i'm a new member and i was raised jewish and i'm verging on agnosticism but nice try on the fishing for jesus bit

**True Blue** · 08-04-2010, 11:19 AM

Originally Posted by shorteedf

I have no private messages on this forum i'm a new member and i was raised jewish and i'm verging on agnosticism but nice try on the fishing for jesus bit

what's with all the promotion?

**shorteedf** · 08-05-2010, 04:03 AM

I don't think i'm doing alot of promoting i think im just offering another place where people can share their anger and their story can reach more people. Also what I said was genuine here's my story from my site which kind of shows you how i can relate to this story.

"before my boyfriend and I went off to school I told him we could be apart while we were at school and he could do whatever he wanted with random girls and we could be together when we were home if it would be easier for him. He said "no no no i don't want that at all", "i would never want that" etc. I said okay. then im at my friend's forth of july party with him and he's texting someone so i asked who he was talking to and he said some girl and i said why are you texting some girl and he said it was some girl he met at a bar who his friend gave his number to.i was like why would your friend give her your number when he knows we're together so i called her from my phone and told her he had a girlfriend and asked her to stop texting him and she said something to me about checking his outbox but i just hung up and told my boyfriend that she said to check his outbox but i told him i wasn't going to do that because I trusted him. i was drunk so i let it slide alittle bit.the day after his story wasn't sitting right with me so i asked him to tell me the truth and he ended up confessing that he gave her his number because he was afraid i was going to leave him when i went to schol and she had texted him a picture of her chest (skank i know right) anyway i didn't break up with hims and i offered my proposition once a gain and he denied it so we proceeded to go to school. He broke up with me after a few weeks and obviously i was upset but I was prepared to live with it if it meant he wouldn't be cheating on me. then my new friend from school wrote on my facebook wall and put a wink at the end of it. My boyfiend flipped out on me over it and i told him that we were broken up so he had to deal with seeing things like that since we weren't dating but since he's the jealous type he made me his girlfriend again. He and i were back together and then he cheated on me three times with three different girls. He cheated on me once before i went to visit him at school (he madeout with some girl) then he cheated on me again after i visited him (he fingered some girl and she gave him head) then we met up at home for a halloween parade and a week later he cheated on me for the third time (he made out with some other girl). I found out all of this at the same time (the night that he cheated on my for the third time i called him and he told me) except that night he only told me he made out with them i found out the details after more prying because his story didn't sit right with me again oh and that night he also admitted to having sex with another girl at the time of a previous break up. anyway on the night he told me he cheated on i still wasn't ready to trash the relationship so i decided that we could be together and be working on things but i just couldnt have the title as his girlfriend because i couldn't respect myself if i still called myself his girlfriend right after he cheated on me so we began to try to work on things and then i found out he hooked up with another girl ( i only found this out because he told me which i respect but he it still wasn't right). i couldn't deal with the fact that i was willing to work on things and he still hooked up with another girl while we were trying to sort things out. in my mind this was the last straw. so i gave up entirely. and then after missing him and believing i was still truly in love i was ready to try again but then over winterbreak i found out other things he had done when he was at school and things just kept piling up when i got back to school the next semester i decided that I had already given him his second chance and he blew it by hooking up with that 4th girl, but even after that all i wanted to do was take this semester to think about things and let things settle in hopes of having a relationship in the future. he texted me after ignoring me for a week apologizing that he had a mental breakdown and left his school. i told him i was sorry to hear it and hoped he felt better soon but yelled at him for not texting me back so atleast i would have known he wasn't ignoring me. i still needed my space so i continued on with my life at school. so i texted him alittle bit later asking how he was and he got snotty with me saying "why do you care?" so i dropped that conversation and then i contacted him once more about a month later to tell him that i didnt think i deserved to be talked to that way when he was the one who screwed me over. he didn't respond to that text so a few hours later i informed him that if i were to bump into him i would not act like perfect strangers because after a 4 year relationship i believed i deserve better than that."

**True Blue** · 08-05-2010, 04:50 AM

If I'm supposed to believe this story you must be really pretty. I'm thinking 'clueless' pretty. You know that 'unbreakable' self-esteem borne out of a 'forgive them for they know not what they do". A turn the other cheek type, because nothing or no one is is important enough to make me waiver in my self belief. This sounds more Christian than jewish. The old testament is more about revenge. An eye for an eye. Your forgiveness doesn't ring true at all.

Also I struggle with someone who posts three times promoting the same website, and whose only contribution is a cut & paste bimbo piece.

The clueless character in your story is not someone who can spell agnostic, nor is it someone who trawls anger websites.

My new profile of you is more rock spider than before. I'm picturing a very fat, homosexual, hoping to bait some straight guy in his mid to late 20's, into talking to you the way no one who ever sees you has. Well i don't fall for it.

**4.cerealz** · 08-05-2010, 08:59 AM

Originally Posted by shorteedf

I don't think i'm doing alot of promoting i think im just offering another place where people can share their anger and their story can reach more people. Also what I said was genuine here's my story from my site which kind of shows you how i can relate to this story.

"before my boyfriend and I went off to school I told him we could be apart while we were at school and he could do whatever he wanted with random girls and we could be together when we were home if it would be easier for him. He said "no no no i don't want that at all", "i would never want that" etc. I said okay. then im at my friend's forth of july party with him and he's texting someone so i asked who he was talking to and he said some girl and i said why are you texting some girl and he said it was some girl he met at a bar who his friend gave his number to.i was like why would your friend give her your number when he knows we're together so i called her from my phone and told her he had a girlfriend and asked her to stop texting him and she said something to me about checking his outbox but i just hung up and told my boyfriend that she said to check his outbox but i told him i wasn't going to do that because I trusted him. i was drunk so i let it slide alittle bit.the day after his story wasn't sitting right with me so i asked him to tell me the truth and he ended up confessing that he gave her his number because he was afraid i was going to leave him when i went to schol and she had texted him a picture of her chest (skank i know right) anyway i didn't break up with hims and i offered my proposition once a gain and he denied it so we proceeded to go to school. He broke up with me after a few weeks and obviously i was upset but I was prepared to live with it if it meant he wouldn't be cheating on me. then my new friend from school wrote on my facebook wall and put a wink at the end of it. My boyfiend flipped out on me over it and i told him that we were broken up so he had to deal with seeing things like that since we weren't dating but since he's the jealous type he made me his girlfriend again. He and i were back together and then he cheated on me three times with three different girls. He cheated on me once before i went to visit him at school (he madeout with some girl) then he cheated on me again after i visited him (he fingered some girl and she gave him head) then we met up at home for a halloween parade and a week later he cheated on me for the third time (he made out with some other girl). I found out all of this at the same time (the night that he cheated on my for the third time i called him and he told me) except that night he only told me he made out with them i found out the details after more prying because his story didn't sit right with me again oh and that night he also admitted to having sex with another girl at the time of a previous break up. anyway on the night he told me he cheated on i still wasn't ready to trash the relationship so i decided that we could be together and be working on things but i just couldnt have the title as his girlfriend because i couldn't respect myself if i still called myself his girlfriend right after he cheated on me so we began to try to work on things and then i found out he hooked up with another girl ( i only found this out because he told me which i respect but he it still wasn't right). i couldn't deal with the fact that i was willing to work on things and he still hooked up with another girl while we were trying to sort things out. in my mind this was the last straw. so i gave up entirely. and then after missing him and believing i was still truly in love i was ready to try again but then over winterbreak i found out other things he had done when he was at school and things just kept piling up when i got back to school the next semester i decided that I had already given him his second chance and he blew it by hooking up with that 4th girl, but even after that all i wanted to do was take this semester to think about things and let things settle in hopes of having a relationship in the future. he texted me after ignoring me for a week apologizing that he had a mental breakdown and left his school. i told him i was sorry to hear it and hoped he felt better soon but yelled at him for not texting me back so atleast i would have known he wasn't ignoring me. i still needed my space so i continued on with my life at school. so i texted him alittle bit later asking how he was and he got snotty with me saying "why do you care?" so i dropped that conversation and then i contacted him once more about a month later to tell him that i didnt think i deserved to be talked to that way when he was the one who screwed me over. he didn't respond to that text so a few hours later i informed him that if i were to bump into him i would not act like perfect strangers because after a 4 year relationship i believed i deserve better than that."

you're a stupid git for chasing after an asshole who OBVIOUSLY didn't love you.

**shorteedf** · 08-05-2010, 10:15 PM

well luckily i'm not with him anymore and honestly i dont know what a rock spider is and i dont really care everyone just tries to do something now and then to help other people and that was my way of being able to reach out and try to make people feel better that may not have anyone else to go to or talk to. So what if I can't spell and i dont care how you think someone who was raised jewish should act my dad's a life coach perhaps thats why i'm so optimistic much rather be that then miserable with anything that doesn't go well in my life and I dont give a shit if you dont believe my story because you dont know me but I posted it for this poster to read, not you. Also i wont take being assumed fat and pathetic i'm 21 and pretty good looking if i may be somewhat arrogant for once Welcome to Facebook
anyway true blue i think you have some real anger issues and their not just whatever you post about i think you need to really take a step back and look in the mirror if you really think it's necessary to tear people who you don't know that are trying to help others down on internet forums to make yourself feel better. Thanks to you this website's probably lost alot of potential visitors because of altercations like this with you and if i were a moderator of the site i'd have you booted.

**Anonymous** · 08-08-2010, 09:45 AM

dude, you gotta just stop doing things for her. Let her know that you're not taking it anymore. Do things for yourself rather than her. It might be difficult because of how you feel for her, but if you stop trying to please her so much, it should ease some of the pain.