I messed up

[fourftofury]

Seriously, chicks really like douchebags?

Since this sounds like a situation in high school, the answer is yes. When girls in high school develop crushes, it can become obsessive. If they don't actually KNOW the person, they sometimes build them up in their heads to be something they are not. Then when initial contact is made, its like throwing a crumb to a starving rat. When the object of the affection just gives a little, girls analyze and obsess. Doesn't matter if they are mean or not.

Ah, I miss high school! LOL

[Andeck]

Well, being a nice guy has worked out perfectly for me so far

[Ebol4]

I guess I'd be okay with messing this up, if there was any other girl at school who I liked.

She's pretty much the only non-popular that doesn't listen to Hannah Montana or the Jonas Brothers..
Plus she's shy and doesn't talk alot, and she's really really beautiful.

I'm still sort of in disbelief at myself that I couldn't do something as simple as saying Hi to someone. My self-esteem is somewhere around -3.

[Andeck]

Sounds like a nice girl. Beg her for forgiveness. Explain the whole situation to her. Maybe she'll understand and forgive you

[Ebol4]

I assume you mean in person... E-mails don't really do that kind of justice.
Speaking of e-mails, prior to her hating me, we had been emailing back and forth for about a month. Eventually, she just stopped. Like really, one day I asked her something like "What's up?" and she never answered. Assuming she might have just been grounded or something like that, I waited a few days before emailing her again. Same thing, no answer.
I stopped trying altogether, and then after about 2 weeks, I tried again, and she finally responded... To tell me to stop e-mailing her.

Keep in mind that I only think she hates me because she thinks I was ignoring her, I don't know for sure. I'm really good friends with one of her best friends, and I tried asking her if she knew why she hated me, and she said she didn't know...
What I've also been told is that I won't care about this in 10 years, but that it will seem terrible now. I'm not really sure if that's true, since I can't skip over 10 years...


Ehhhh........ I kind of like the girl that I'm good friends with, but I don't know if I'd actually want to go out with her, since she is constantly flirting and hanging out with other guys. One of the guys is my friend, and he also likes her, but he doesn't know that I like her... Whatever.

I need some cookies and music...

[The mad hillbilly]

Since this sounds like a situation in high school, the answer is yes. When girls in high school develop crushes, it can become obsessive. If they don't actually KNOW the person, they sometimes build them up in their heads to be something they are not. Then when initial contact is made, its like throwing a crumb to a starving rat. When the object of the affection just gives a little, girls analyze and obsess. Doesn't matter if they are mean or not.

Ah, I miss high school! LOL

Ummm, Did you just call us dudes hungry rats?lol

[Ebol4]

I just realized how obsessive I am about her. I wrote death metal songs about the general idea of what's going on between me and her (My songs all suck by the way, I haven't ever written one that I liked, but other people have told me otherwise...). I think about her constantly.

[Hard Justice Stan]

What I've also been told is that I won't care about this in 10 years, but that it will seem terrible now. I'm not really sure if that's true, since I can't skip over 10 years...

Haha, don't take offence to this, but teenagers are so cute!

No doubting that it does suck now, but you will definitely not care about this in 10 years and dare I say, one year.

[slim]

I sure did some dumb shit in high school ten years ago... hahaha

[Ebol4]

Well fuck. Do I even try then? Or do nothing since I won't care in ten years?
This all actually happened a year ago by the way. I just never told anyone except for around 3 people. 1 of which probably told around 6 other people.
So last year, we emailed and she hated me and all that jazz.

Whenever I think about her, it always comes back to how I messed up. I've apparently been noticeably generally sadder around everyone, since a couple of my friends have told to stop being sad for whatever reason. I don't fucking understand why my fucking mind thought it would be better if I never said a fucking word to her. I can't even imagine how happy I might be if I had just said Hi to her.